A Wishful Thinker……


We use to be like twins so in sync…..
August 31, 2008, 1:50 pm
Filed under: Birthdays, Crazy Pointless, Weekends, Weird life experiences, park

So I thought I was copping a lot of flack from my friends about MB and how we try to arrange meeting our friends around the time we meet up with each other. I thought it was only me, but as it turns out, he’s getting just as much from his friends. On Friday night, he gets a call from one of them telling him to go meet them at Onyx. We had planned to hang out together, because he told me he’s usually tired on Fridays. I didn’t hear what they said, all I heard was some yelling on the other end. MB told me later that they were giving him crap because he didn’t want to go out.

Friday night we just hung out in NB, but there seemed to be a lot of people out. As we were leaving, the cops closed up the end of William St. Me, being Azn and female, naturally wanted to see what was happening. The sucky thing about him being that big is that he blocks my view dammit! >< So I made him switch sides with me. :P But then further down the street,  one of the cops came driving the wrong way of a one way street towards us with their lights flashing. Freaked me out because I thought we did something. Then they got to where we were and stopped, rolled down the window and I was like :O I didn’t do it!!!! :( But yeah, after that we went back to his place and hung out for a bit there.

Saturday night was interesting. Went to MB’s friend’s birthday. I kinda knew a few people there. A few I went to college with, and there was one person there I went to primary school with!!! I hadn’t seen her since I was 10!!! Yep, Perth is definitely too small. The other thing is she’s got the same birthday as me too. LOL. But yeah, was only there a few minutes, and we saw his friends. They started giving him crap about being on a leash etc. Then they saw me and one of them comes up to me and goes: “You took him from me!!!!!!! He use to dress up for me and now look at him!!!!” ROFL!!! I’m sorry, but he wears that himself. I had nothing to do with the way he dresses. But yeah, it wasn’t too late a night. We left pretty early and went to chat in South Perth. Luckily I got home when I did, because mum was on alert last night. She waited up to see what time we got home. Bro got a major telling off for coming home at 6.  :P



Happy Birthday Dad!
August 27, 2008, 11:07 pm
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Yesterday was my dad’s birthday.

Had dinner at home, and I got dad a Green Tea cake from Cakes Delight. Yummy! Mum loves this cake better because its not as sweet as most cakes. I just like cakes in general. :D

Then after dinner, I played around online and made a blingee because I got super bored. Only I was waiting to go for waffles with the others. After that cake though. Didn’t really feel like waffles anymore. Neither did they apparently because they ended up playing Wii at Chaifly’s apartment. While the boys battled it out, Lil A and I sat around chatting and making fun of how the boys regress to childlike status when playing games. LOL.

TrayNme
Build your own Blingee

I got a call from MB. :) While I was talking to him on the phone, some random white guy walked in. I was like :| So I went to lock the door. Then I could hear the guys outside going: “WE CAN HEAR YOU!” Which was interesting because MB was talking at the time. :P When I came out, we were going to watch a movie, but it was getting late and we were starting to yawn. So we went home. I got home and looked on Facebook as VnT had called to make sure that no one else could see the photos. It seems that in that couple of hours I was out, Poita, Lh and VnT were busy leaving comments for the photos. >.<



Busy Bizy B-Z
August 25, 2008, 1:45 pm
Filed under: Birthdays, Bumming, Crazy Pointless, Weekends, alcohol, clubbing

Another weekend of extreme activities. :)

Friday night was suppose to go with VnT to get the items for our cheese fondue lunch on Saturday. Only we couldn’t get parking anyway decent, so we gave up to go have bubble t at Utopia instead. We were then meant to meet Miss J at Vanni’s sister’s apartment to play pool, because I am such an awesome player and I have my own unique style of playing. ;) LOL. Only Miss J canceled on us, and Kf ended up coming by to play pool with us. Only then he decided that the call of Chaifly’s Wii was too strong and wanted to go over and play that. So Vnt and him went to Chaifly’s place, and I went to MB’s place.

He complains about the south being too dark and having a lack of traffic lights… well I’m sorry but his street is darker and more confusing than anywhere south! I could not recognize ANY of the houses, and I couldn’t remember what number he said his house was, so I made him come out into the cold in his PJs to find me. Hehehe! After hanging around his place while he attempted to fix his computer, we went to meet the others at MinQ. Saw the most interesting people there. There was a chick who’s “dress” was more like a shirt. It was so short and everything was just about to fall out. I give full credit to who ever made that dress because the stitching was holding it together really well. :P Well done! But seriously, she was really drunk, and every few seconds, she’ll adjust herself in full view of everyone. Every time I looked up, she had her hand up her dress pulling down the material underneath it. >.< Vnt saw her stick her hand down her top to adjust her boobs. :| Sooooooooo glad I didn’t see that. Chaifly’s sister saw her dealing in the toilets earlier on too. :\ Explains why her and her friend were the most flamboyant ones out of that group.

Saturday was girl’s day at Vnt’s sister’s place. We made cheese fondue for lunch and it was super duper yummy. I’m not too sure if it was the cheese or the combination of the cheese, wine and food. But yeah, so filling, so yummy. We then sat around talking and painting our nails. :) Missy Chrissy had to leave straight after lunch, but it was a nice relaxing day. :) Vnt and I then sat around the rest of the evening talking and waiting for our nail to dry properly. When Vnt went off to have a shower, I was on the couch trying to get through to Zoom. After awhile, I ended up falling asleep on the couch, and was only woken up when Vnt came running out of the shower screaming because one of her nail polish was chipped. Got a message from MB informing me he was now drunk. LOL. I was still sitting around thinking that maybe I should start getting ready to go out. :P So I gave him a call to see just how “drunk” he was. I barely heard anything but his friends in the background screaming. LOL. We figured by then that we really should start getting ready because we still hadn’t eaten dinner yet either.

We got to Metros and then went to get food. It was then that we got a call from Tc that she was at Crown for a friend’s birthday, and so we went to find her. Had a few drinks there, and there was a guy there who because of his hair… or lack of…. that I remember him. I see him around the place, but I didn’t know he knew my friend. He was telling us that the Chambord went well with lemonade, and VnT and I were like. Yes. Chambord goes well with everything! :P

Met up with the others at Metros. It was really good. Not as many people we knew out and about, but it was still good. :) Had a lot to drink, but it wasn’t until really later when the others were totally off their face when I finally felt a little bit tipsy. :S I guess it was ok though. Everyone else thought I was drunk, so I just let them believe that. Hehehe! After we got home, VnT and I were still pretty high, so we chatted some more. I got a few messages and that from my friends and my brother who didn’t know I was staying over.

Woke up on Sunday, and was sitting around when I got a call from my brother telling me that mum had canceled dad’s birthday dinner, and wants me to meet them for lunch at Dragon Palace instead. So I went off to meet them for lunch while VnT went to meet her dad at the temple. We then went over to Chaifly’s place and I watched his tv, while VnT played around on FB and Lil A and Chaifly studied. I got tired and sleepy, so went home. Met up with MB after dinner.

On my way out mum was like: “WHAT?! Going out again? You’ve been out all weekend! Why don’t you want to watch the closing ceremony with us?” I didn’t watch the opening, what makes you think I’ll watch the closing? *shrugs* Anyways, we went to Makan2 where they had it on as well. Apparently his mum said the same thing as my mum to him too. LOL. Mums. :)



Cocktails!!!!!!
August 21, 2008, 12:09 pm
Filed under: Bars, Cocktails, Crazy Pointless, alcohol, food

I <3 Cocktails. I do. :) I really do. :D They can be so yummy and so pretty!!!!

Agl and I got invited to a Master class cocktail making night at Luxe Bar in Mt Lawley last night. It was really good. It was run by a rep for the company Brown-Forman which supplies the brand…. and one of my favourites…. Chambord!!!!!! ^_^

So most of the cocktails we were taught to make last night contained Chambord and other Brown-Forman stuff. I was lucky in that the cocktail I got to try making was a French Martini!! I love that stuff!! Got hooked on it at MinQ, and it is surprisingly very easy to make. I had some problems with the making of it, as the bar was high, I’m short, and a full bottle of alcohol is actually quite heavy, especially when you have to reach that far to get to the dam glass!!! The other bar guy gave me crap about it. I’m like Shut up!! I know I is short!!! >< Agl took photos of me making the cocktail, and I took photos of her making her margarita! Hehehe… soooo good!

After the class, we went to have dinner, and came across a place which coincidentally was pasta and pizza night. :D So we had pasta. I had Gnocchi Quattro Formaggi. It was yummy. I thought we would need more food, so we ordered chips too. Agl finally realised how much I love chips. :P While Agl was taking photos of her meal, the guy at the next table saw and was watching with a smile. Being me, I saw him looking, so I started talking to him. We had a little chat about taking photos of food, and he told me about his daughter doing the same thing in Bali. It wasn’t until halfway through the conversation, in my head I heard MB’s voice mocking me about talking to randoms. >.< Dammit! I did it again. Oh well, the guy was quite nice, and so was the rest of his family. Hehehe!!

I cannot for the life of me remember the name of the place, but I would definitely go there again. The food was yummy, the service wasn’t too bad, and the staff were very friendly. Even when we were the last ones there and I left something behind and had to go back and get it. *Blushes*

Will post the photos when I get them from Agl.



The Balance of things:Chain reactions of a fool’s choice…..
August 19, 2008, 3:34 pm
Filed under: Uncategorized

A part of my life has been going so well lately, I’ve been fearing that fate would eventually want to balance things out. Well today I found out something that I think officially sinks the perfect state of the world for me.

I have a huge family. I’m not kidding. It is HUGE. 16 Uncles and aunties plus their respective spouses on my dad’s side alone, and 9 on my mum’s. Throw in the accumulation of cousins, nephews, nieces, and the whole extended family, and I think you get the picture. My family isn’t what you would consider close for an Asian family, but in general, we are pretty close. I share a lot of informations with a few of them, and they in return play a large part in my life and actions.

One of these family members, we don’t see eye to eye on… well… everything really, but they have always provided me with alternative possibilities of life. We get along well enough, even if it is most of the time we agree to disagree on everything. No matter how mush we disagreed, I always looked up to this person as I know that they have had my best interest at heart. We may not agree on our theories of the mysteries in life, but we have always gotten along. Today, I received news as to why I haven’t really spoken or chatted online to this person lately. The news is just starting to sink in for me, I am fluctuating between feelings of anger towards them, and disappointment in their actions. I just never thought they would sink to such level.

I know that people change over time, but I have no respect for anyone who would resort to what they have done. I’m not saying that I’m perfect and I will not be in the position to be tempted to go down that path one day, but I trust that I will respect that other person and have the strength to handle the situation with the integrity and honor which this person’s actions do not do. To give up everything thinking that there are greener pastures without realizing that you have what some people can only dream of. I still can’t believe that this has happened. Of all the people in my life, this person is the last person I would have thought would do this.

I guess the other part of my disappointment stems from the hypocrisy of their words. They always, ALWAYS preached to me that such a situation is the worse possible thing to ever inflict on anyone, which is one of the few things we do actually agree on. For them to go do this. It just makes me speechless as how they could do such a thing. I think as the reality of this is sinking in for me, my heart goes out to the biggest victims of this situation. I want nothing more than to go to them and comfort them, but at the same time, I realised that no matter how much I want to comfort them, nothing will ever be the same again. It breaks my heart to know that they are hurting so much because of the actions of a fool, and to know that being in my position, I cannot do anything to change that. I only hope that they can later understand the situation and I can still play a part in their lives even if that fool does not regain their sanity. :(



Sentimental Ponderings…..
August 19, 2008, 2:21 am
Filed under: Pondering

Had another great weekend of nothingness. :)

Spent most of Saturday doing nothing with MB. It was quite nice. Before I continue, I think I should just let you know… if you are eating or have a weak stomach, do NOT continue reading because this post would probably make you sick. :P

So you have been warned……
I know this sounds ridiculously cliche and very not like me, but it seems like everytime we meet up, the time just seems to fly by. I noticed it the first time we met up, before we knew it it was 9pm, and the sun had well and truely disappeared. I am so surprised that whenever I meet him, and the more I get to know him, the more about him I’m liking. It scared me at first, as I realised that I had only known him a few weeks, but if we added all the time that we met up together, it was technically less than a week. Even so, I still found myself thinking of him. I was at work one day, and the guys in TV/Hifi were talking about the new Star Wars animation. The first thing I thought of was how he found Yoda funny when we saw the trailer for it at the movie. *blushes* It so sappy I know, but for some reason or another I find myself doing it from time to time.

On Saturday night, we were at MinQ and his friend was really drunk and talking him up to me. At first I was a little taken  a back, and he seemed a little shy and embarrassed by the things she was saying, so I was worried thinking he told her stuff about us. But then she continued, and I realised that the things she was telling me was actually quite sweet and surprising. I had no idea he actually thought about those things. It was a huge comfort to me to know that. If anything, it has possibly made me like him even more.

The strangest thing is that I never expected him to come along. I was at the stage where I had pretty much decided, you know what? No point sitting around waiting for that someone to come into your life and turn it upside down, until he comes along, I’m gonna go and have fun living. At the moment, I don’t know if he is that someone. I do know that for the first time in a LONG time I have felt anything for someone. Its also the first time that I’ve been so comfortable with anyone I’ve just met. I don’t know why, but when we are together, we talk about the most personal things, and yet I don’t feel at all uncomfortable. Sometimes I’ll tell my closest friends things, but I don’t feel I can tell them the WHOLE story. With him, I seem to find myself telling him things and its not till later when I realised that the stuff that I told him, I haven’t even told some of my friends. :|

After our friends had left MinQ, he and I sat there having a quite chat for awhile. Then his two friends came back. After they left, we went to South Perth to talk in a more private place. I am glad to have that moment to talk things over.  :)

On a closing note.. .I didn’t realised that it is possible to get a hickey on the lips, until Sunday morning when I went to brush my teeth. He admired his handy work tonight and is now extremely proud of himself. He offers to even it out for me. >.< Like hell he is!!!! XP



My caffeine induced love…..
August 15, 2008, 11:52 am
Filed under: Crazy Pointless, Pondering

Sometimes…. I think I shouldn’t drink coffee. At one stage, I was extremely immune to the amazing powers of caffeine. To the point where I could drink several cups of coffee right before bed and still fall asleep. :S But then I cut back. Like heaps. :| But, it’s ok! I can now power through the day on one cup of coffee rather than the many cups I use to require!!! :D Yes, I still get headaches when I don’t drink coffee for a day. >.<

But yes, this was all before we got the coffee plunger. See before we had one of those regular coffee percolators that squirt hot water over the coffee grind, so what ended up happening was, it would take too long for me to get my caffeine hit. Now with the plunger, I get my caffeine hit as soon as the grind has seeped through…. Sooooo MORE COFFEE FASTER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! WOOT WOOT!!!! I <3 Coffee!!! But there are moments where I have learnt is better to not drink it.

1) When you are super duper drunk.
Sure it wakes you up…. but then it is more to the point where the caffeine makes a gazillion thoughts go flying through your head, but the alcohol still has control on the rest of your body, and what ends up happening is that you think are doing things really well, but in fact you just look like a tool waving your arms about… slowly. :P

2) When you are already fully awake and contain a lot of sugar. Of which is my current state. I probably shouldn’t have drunk those cups of coffee. Because right now I feel like I need to go to the park and play on the playground! :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D

ARGH!!!! THE STUPID ECU ADD ON HOTMAIL REALLY REALLY S***S ME OFF!!!!!! IT KEEPS PLAYING WHEN EVER I SEND AN EMAIL!!!! USING UP MY PRECIOUS QUOTA!!!!!!! ARRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!

OK….. cutting back on the coffee now…… >.<



You want me to do what?! O.O
August 14, 2008, 1:04 pm
Filed under: Uncategorized

Blood Donation. Yes. I know it can help save people’s lives. BUT it doesn’t change the fact that I have a pathological fear of needles!!! :| He wants me to go with him to donate blood. I’ll go…. but I’m not donating. >.<

I’m currently chatting to Chezza on MSN, trying to come up with ways to get even with JonBoy for smoking. She needs 10 tasks. Hehehe! Those two crack me up. I need to go wash my car. Danngit. >.<



DAYS OFF!!!! :D
August 12, 2008, 2:07 pm
Filed under: Uncategorized

Music on Rotation:
Metro Station: Shake it
Annie: I know UR Girlfriend Hates Me
Rhianna: Disturbia
Lady GaGa: Just Dance (I think this song describes my drunken nights)
Three 6 Mafia: Lolli Lolli (Pop That Body)
Sam Sparrow: Black and Gold
Annie: Chewing Gum
Madonna: Give it to me
Samim: Heater
Booty Luv: Don’t Mess with my Man
Ray J: Sexy Can I
The Ting Tings: Great DJ
Pink: So What
Prima J: Rockstar
Leon Jean Marie: Bring it on
Sam Sparro: 21st Century Life

Action: Dancing around the empty house on my own to the sounds!!!!!!

Mood: Relaxed and Lovin’ it!

Productivity Level: ZILCH!

Just realised yesterday that this weekend is packed full of activities. :| I think I need to cancel on Shell-Shell. Was going to go rock climbing with her, but I don’t know if I can make it. Need to buy the decorations for the baby shower. I’m thinking of joining the Pilates class, and if I go to the Saturday morning classes, chances are, I can skip working Saturdays, at least for the next few weeks!! :D In the mean time, I gotta work out what I’m going to get Danaynay for the baby shower. Hmmm… choices… Baby projector/lullaby player….. baby belt…. Changing wallet… cloth nappies…. baby set…. baby toys…. hmm… damn kids are expensive. :S

Jk is back in Perth this week. Maybe I’ll call her out for tight-arse Tuesday waffles tonight. :D



Waaaa?!
August 10, 2008, 8:29 pm
Filed under: Uncategorized

Was having a catch up coffee and wedges with friends on Friday night, and one of my friends who I don’t see on a regular basis out of the blue commented that my face was not as round as usual. To which my reply was. O.o

So I finally got round to weighing myself….

I’ve dropped 5kgs. :| WTF? I haven’t been on a diet!!!! Nor am I trying to loose weight!!!! I got squishy bits which I’m working on, but I had no intentions of loosing weight!!! >.<

Back on my cookie diet I think. I haven’t eaten as many cookies as of late, but I think I need to start again. Need have 4 not just 2 per night.